Do you love Elohim(meaning God The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Do you know that in your carnal nature it is impossible to love Elohim like you want to? Jeremiah 17:9 it reads,
The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?
So we see here a problem. Even while we seek love Elohim, our love is tainted. You ask what is the answer? In Christ, we have the ability to let God know that we love Him with the love of Christ. In Christ, we have the victory. In Him, everything we do is pure, unedfiled, without blemish, and holy. You will find that in your daily life that perfect love is not possible on your own accord. We have to pray the blessings of Christ upon our lives; pray for His fruits, His LOVE.
The Balance is of God, In His Shoes 